I read and wonder what it is I am selfish in giving up in order to help another in their walk. Is it time? money? stuff? food? What is it I am loving more than loving His people.
As a believer, many are watching to see you in action. When in Christ, there is something "different" about us, and it does/should draw attention. It is being in Christ that makes us stand out from the world.
Do I ever hold on to the things of the world to satisfy my "self", even if it means hindering another ones walk? I know of one who didn't feel the need to give up drinking in front of an alcoholic, believing it was up to the person to not submit to drink. It wasn't part of their job to help them overcome. We are all on a different level in our walks, different strengths and weaknesses. Different because we need each other.
As I have grown in Christ, I see it is our job to come along side of each other and help the growth. When helping each other, we are really helping the whole family. We are living a life that is pleasing to Him.
So I ask you, what is it you are holding onto, satisfying "self", which is hindering the walk of a brother or sister. Is it really worth it?